{"id":16,"date":"2025-05-13T08:53:17","date_gmt":"2025-05-13T06:53:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/persuasive-community-manager\/?p=16"},"modified":"2025-05-27T08:32:28","modified_gmt":"2025-05-27T06:32:28","slug":"my-anxiety-and-my-anger-in-link-with-my-future-career","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/persuasive-community-manager\/2025\/05\/13\/my-anxiety-and-my-anger-in-link-with-my-future-career\/","title":{"rendered":"My anxiety and my anger in link with my future career"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-28f84493 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>1. Anxiety: The Fear of Distance&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\"><em>One of the strongest emotions I feel is anxiety \u2014 mostly linked to the fear that people will drift away from me or stop caring. This comes from my past experiences of abandonment, where I loved deeply but was left behind.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\"><em>As a future Community Manager, this fear transforms into something else: I\u2019m afraid that users or members of a community might feel\u202fignored, misunderstood or left out. This fear pushes me to want to always be present, responsive, and caring. I think empathy and active listening will be essential tools to make sure no one feels \u201clost\u201d \u2014 just like I never want to feel again.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>2. Anger: The Fear of Abandonment&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\"><em>Anger often shows up in me when I feel rejected or left aside \u2014 a reaction to the idea that someone is walking away. In my future career, I know I\u2019ll sometimes receive negative feedback or deal with tense situations. That can trigger this anger.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\"><em>But instead of reacting emotionally, I\u2019m learning (slowly) to\u202fpause and reflect. Understanding that people\u2019s reactions aren\u2019t always personal helps me cool down. I don\u2019t want to be a Community Manager who burns bridges \u2014 I want to be the kind that builds stronger ones, even in the middle of conflict.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cIl ne faut pas se mettre en col\u00e8re contre les choses : cela ne leur fait absolument rien.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\"><em>&#8211; Madame de Sta\u00ebl<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. Anxiety: The Fear of Distance&nbsp; One of the strongest emotions I feel is anxiety \u2014 mostly linked to the fear that people will drift away from me or stop caring. This comes from my past experiences of abandonment, where I loved deeply but was left behind.&nbsp; As a future Community Manager, this fear transforms [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-non-classe"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/persuasive-community-manager\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/persuasive-community-manager\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/persuasive-community-manager\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/persuasive-community-manager\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/persuasive-community-manager\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/persuasive-community-manager\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":58,"href":"https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/persuasive-community-manager\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16\/revisions\/58"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/persuasive-community-manager\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/persuasive-community-manager\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/persuasive-community-manager\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}