{"id":30,"date":"2025-05-13T15:06:59","date_gmt":"2025-05-13T13:06:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/desperate-hotel-manager\/?p=30"},"modified":"2025-05-25T18:23:38","modified_gmt":"2025-05-25T16:23:38","slug":"article-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/desperate-hotel-manager\/2025\/05\/13\/article-1\/","title":{"rendered":"Article 1"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignfull has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\" style=\"margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;padding-top:var(--wp--preset--spacing--50);padding-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--50)\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns alignwide is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-47c06fe3 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:56%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"736\" height=\"1308\" src=\"https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/desperate-hotel-manager\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/84\/2025\/05\/72bc927a4dae24baf332119845ef385b.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-357\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1;object-fit:cover\" srcset=\"https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/desperate-hotel-manager\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/84\/2025\/05\/72bc927a4dae24baf332119845ef385b.jpg 736w, https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/desperate-hotel-manager\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/84\/2025\/05\/72bc927a4dae24baf332119845ef385b-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/desperate-hotel-manager\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/84\/2025\/05\/72bc927a4dae24baf332119845ef385b-576x1024.jpg 576w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 736px) 100vw, 736px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-container-core-column-is-layout-119bc444 wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\">My two fears<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left has-large-font-size\">The fear of being alone and procrastination are two common struggles that many people, including myself, face in various aspects of life. While they may seem unrelated, they often share underlying emotional causes that impact both mental well-being and productivity. By understanding these challenges, we can begin to address them and take steps toward healthier habits.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignfull has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\" style=\"margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;padding-top:var(--wp--preset--spacing--50);padding-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--50)\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns alignwide is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-fa584acd wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-xx-large-font-size\">The fear of being alone<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">For me, the fear of being alone goes beyond simply being by myself. It\u2019s not about solitude, but about the worry that I won\u2019t be able to form meaningful connections like the ones I have with my mother and family. They\u2019re the people who truly understand me and provide the emotional support that helps me feel grounded. I fear that, in the future, I might struggle to build relationships that are as deep and fulfilling as those I have now, which makes the thought of being alone even more overwhelming.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">This fear isn\u2019t just about dependency; it\u2019s about identity and belonging. Being with those who truly know me makes me feel like myself. Without them, I fear losing touch with who I am. I\u2019ve come to understand that even when we\u2019re not physically together, that connection remains a part of me. This fear, in the end, isn\u2019t just something to overcome, it\u2019s a powerful reminder of what truly matters.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"735\" height=\"739\" src=\"https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/desperate-hotel-manager\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/84\/2025\/05\/b4bda338bf9939e5b5c3898f46c758cd.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-336\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1;object-fit:cover\" srcset=\"https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/desperate-hotel-manager\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/84\/2025\/05\/b4bda338bf9939e5b5c3898f46c758cd.jpg 735w, https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/desperate-hotel-manager\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/84\/2025\/05\/b4bda338bf9939e5b5c3898f46c758cd-298x300.jpg 298w, https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/desperate-hotel-manager\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/84\/2025\/05\/b4bda338bf9939e5b5c3898f46c758cd-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignfull has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\" style=\"margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;padding-top:var(--wp--preset--spacing--80);padding-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--80)\">\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading alignwide has-text-align-center has-xx-large-font-size\"><strong>&#8220;Being alone doesn&#8217;t mean being lonely&#8221;<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">&#8211; Jiddu Krishnamurti<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignfull is-style-section-5 has-accent-6-background-color has-background has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained is-style-section-5--1\" style=\"margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;padding-top:var(--wp--preset--spacing--50);padding-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--50)\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns alignwide is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-7ee84d44 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group is-nowrap is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-6c531013 wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"736\" height=\"1308\" src=\"https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/desperate-hotel-manager\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/84\/2025\/05\/85dde873e8272c8fe4cb0bf49b6a8026.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-353\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1;object-fit:cover;width:536px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/desperate-hotel-manager\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/84\/2025\/05\/85dde873e8272c8fe4cb0bf49b6a8026.jpg 736w, https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/desperate-hotel-manager\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/84\/2025\/05\/85dde873e8272c8fe4cb0bf49b6a8026-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/web.gymnasedebussigny.ch\/desperate-hotel-manager\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/84\/2025\/05\/85dde873e8272c8fe4cb0bf49b6a8026-576x1024.jpg 576w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 736px) 100vw, 736px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-top is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<h1>Procrastination <\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-contrast-color has-text-color has-link-color has-medium-font-size wp-elements-e31cdbd6935fb664def3aa57d9c8ac0c\">Procrastination is something I struggle with, especially when it comes to school. I tend to delay starting projects or engaging with new subjects because I often feel overwhelmed by the amount of work ahead or fear that I won\u2019t do it well. Whether it\u2019s a big assignment or learning something new, I find myself putting it off until the last minute. This causes a lot of stress, and I end up feeling guilty for not starting things sooner, even though deep down, I know I have the ability to handle them. It\u2019s a cycle that makes it harder to get started and adds unnecessary pressure as deadlines approach.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-contrast-color has-text-color has-link-color has-medium-font-size wp-elements-75795c4e57d8b5d592516290ade076f6\">On top of that, I often feel guilty for doing anything other than schoolwork. Even when I try to take a break or focus on something else, there&#8217;s a persistent feeling in my gut telling me I should be working. That guilt makes it hard to truly enjoy time off or stay present in anything unrelated to school. It feels like there\u2019s no room for anything beyond my studies, and that constant pressure adds another layer of stress. Instead of recharging, I just feel like I\u2019m falling behind.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignfull has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-container-core-group-is-layout-0c9c989a wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\" style=\"min-height:0vh;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;padding-top:var(--wp--preset--spacing--70);padding-right:var(--wp--preset--spacing--40);padding-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--70);padding-left:var(--wp--preset--spacing--40)\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-container-core-group-is-layout-346627ba wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-large-font-size\">The fear of being alone and procrastination are emotional hurdles I face regularly. Recognizing these issues helps me slowly take steps to challenge them, aiming to feel more at peace with being alone and getting things done without so much delay<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-content-justification-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-is-layout-a89b3969 wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button is-style-fill\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/mcgraw.princeton.edu\/undergraduates\/resources\/resource-library\/understanding-and-overcoming-procrastination\">Article about procrastination<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-button is-style-fill\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/www.glamour.com\/story\/how-to-face-your-fear-of-being-alone\">Article about the fear of being alone<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My two fears The fear of being alone and procrastination are two common struggles that many people, including myself, face in various aspects of life. 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